Don’t Cry Over Spilled Wine
There is a widespread custom mentioned by the Rema (296:1) to spill some wine by Havdalah as a good omen for blessing. However, this custom has many poskim seeing red.
Anger
The idea that reacting calmly when someone spills wine, instead of becoming angry, brings blessing and prosperity into the home.
There is a widespread custom mentioned by the Rema (296:1) to spill some wine by Havdalah as a good omen for blessing. However, this custom has many poskim seeing red.