Purim Torah Rings True

There are some perplexing questions on the Megillah which perhaps may be explained by putting together various passages of Gemara.
(1) Why did Esther invite Haman to the party with Achashveirosh?
(2) In Esther’s plea to Achashveirosh at her final party, she says that if the enemy would have sufficed with treating her nation like slaves then she would be silent. Why should she concede this point? Who even brought up this possibility?
(3) Why does Achashveirosh feign ignorance to Esther by stating: “Who is this, and who is he”? Is it not obvious that there is only one nation under threat of annihilation?
(4) Also, what is the need for the repetitive phrase “Who is this and who is he?”
(5) When identifying the perpetrator to Achashveirosh, why does Esther add a description–“An adversary and an enemy, this evil Haman”? Why didn’t she simply say, “It is Haman”?
The Gemara in Megillah (12a) records an interesting back-and-forth between R’ Shimon bar Yochai and his students. The disciples asked: “Why did the Jewish people of that generation deserve extermination?” He said to them: “You say [the reason].” They said to him: “Because they derived pleasure from the feast of that wicked one [Achashveirosh].” If so, only the Jews of Shushan should have been ordered to be killed, but not the Jews of the rest of the world. They [disciples] said to him [R’ Shimon bar Yochai]: “You tell us the reason.” He said to them: “Because they prostrated themselves to an image [Rashi: in the days of Nevuchadnetzar].” They said to him: “Should favoritism be shown in such a case?” Why weren’t the Jews ultimately punished? He said to them: “The Jews prostrated only outwardly [Rashi: out of fear].” They did not really intend to serve the idol. Similarly, G-d dealt with them only outwardly [to frighten them into repenting].